Monday, September 29, 2008

Farwell to Ed

Saturday we had Ed's funeral at church. Everyone in his family had something to say, along with his "brothers." Ed was an only child, but he had many friends who he considered his brothers. The funeral was the funniest event I've ever been to. Jennifer gave his life sketch and she brought down the house talking about the "life lessons" they grew up with. One of his daughters and two grandchildren sang a beautiful song. The harmony was unlike any I've heard before. They did themselves proud.

There was a moment of spirituality when one of the members spoke about the church and the hereafter. He said some important, comforting things about the promises the Lord has made if we do our part. It was comforting to know we'll surely see Ed again.

Then the "brothers" spoke and the hilarity started again. It was nice to be able to laugh out loud at such a sad event. But that's the way Mormon funerals are. Not only are they family reunions, but they're pretty happy times for the most part. We shed a few tears but that's OK!

Ed's son, played a drum solo (bongo type) while they lowered the casket at the cemetery. I've never experienced something like that before, but it was really nice and very unusual.

Afterward the Relief Society provided one of their fabulous meals for about 60 people. That is such a nice thing our church does for people. It gives the family a chance to take a deep breath, get nourished and then go home and relax. I'm not sure Patti relaxed much as they were getting ready for a big party so all the "brothers" could sit around and reminisce about Ed. It was really a nice get-together.

Patti went to sleep while the party was still going on, but that was OK. Everyone understood and they stayed until who knows when! It was a sad but lovely day and Ed would have been thrilled at the tribute held in his honor.


  1. I am so glad that it was a nice tribute to his life. Thanks so much for the update. Please tell Patti I am thinking of her.

  2. Sounds like a wonderful tribute to Ed. I think "our" funerals have such a way of being comforting! Love to you all!

  3. I'm sorry to hear of his passing, but the funeral sounds like it was nice. I agree with our mom, that Mo funerals are comforting, and more of a time to celebrate their lives.

  4. Tell Patti I was sorry to hear of the loss of her husband, Ed. It is very comforting to know that we have the gospel and know of the great plan that Heavenly Father has for all his children. Sounds like the services were a great tribute to his life. I am sure he will be missed by his "brothers" and family.